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Mailing address: 4500 Kensington Avenue, Richmond, VA 23221
Meeting place address: 4500 Kensington Avenue, Richmond, Virginia 23221-2301
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Telephone: (804) 358-6185-Meeting House telephone
Web site: http://www.richmondfriends.org/
First Day schedule: Worship, 9:30 a.m. and 11:00 a.m.; First Day School, 11:20 a.m.
Business Meeting schedule: Third First Day, 11:00 a.m.-12:30 p.m.
Travel directions: From the north, take I-95 to Exit 79. Take I-195 South for one and one-half miles and exit at Broad Street/US Route 250. Go right/west on Broad/250 one-half mile to Commonwealth (second traffic light). Go left/south on Commonwealth 12 blocks to Kensington. The Meeting House is on the corner of Kensington and Commonwealth Avenues.
Clerk: Barbara Myers;
Assistant Clerk: Margaret Edds;
Treasurer: Kristen Hoogakker;
Ministry & Worship: Monica Shaw;
Religious Education: Barb Adams;
Financial Stewardship Sanford Hostetter
History: History and Archives webpage


 

Spiritual State of the Meeting Report - 2009

Richmond Friends Meeting
Spiritual State of the Meeting Report
For the Year 2009

Looking back on this year, we view the Spiritual State of our Meeting as steady, vibrant, healthy, alive, and active. We have not had one or two major activities. Instead, we have experienced energy and vitality bubbling up in a number of important and exciting areas of our community’s life.

We are pleased to note the increase in participation in our committees by younger members of our community—some in positions of leadership. The Nominating Committee found responsiveness on the part of new attenders when offered the opportunities to serve.

We continue to feel the energy of our children and Young Friends during the first twenty minutes of Meeting. Our Religious Education Classes are thriving. Our Assistant Clerk will serve as a Liaison to the Religious Education Committee this year.

Meeting supported the ministries of individual Friends who were called to serve in specific areas. Support committees gave these individuals the personal support and guidance needed to carry out their ministries, and all of Meeting benefited from reports and presentations around their activities. Moreover, we have embraced the idea that people are called to ministry, and we are learning how this can be realized within a non-programmed tradition.

Many members of our Meeting have recognized their own gifts and have been actively involved with groups and organizations in the Richmond community and in the world.

The spiritual state of our Meeting during this past year was profoundly affected by the illness and death of our friend, Jean Jones Andersen. Over the years, Jean organized and led small groups in Bible study, dream work, Islamic studies, and the quest for meaning in life. She led by example. She invited others into her home, her life, and into the process of her dying. Many of us were deeply touched by her and by her encouraging us to “trust the process.” In her will, she left us with a challenge regarding the future of adult spiritual education in our Meeting.

Over the past year, as Jean lost her strength, the Spirit of our Meeting was revealed in the continuation of Bible Workbench and the Islamic Studies group without her physical presence and direct leadership. As one member observed, “We saw that we have the Spirit within us that was within Jean.”

We see that Spirit is active in our Friendly Eights groups, in our various committees, in our Religious Education program, and in increased connections and interactions between adults and young people. In our Meetings for Worship we continue to experience the depth and significance of the silence as we wait. Vocal ministry during Meeting has been rich and meaningful.

Our Meetinghouse and education building have become well-used resources for like-minded groups. This accomplishes one of the goals articulated when we renovated and expanded our facilities. Similarly, use of the Clearing has increased over the past year; some see the Clearing as poised to “take off,” realizing the dream of many.

During this past year, our Meeting has responded to the economic crisis in our world by establishing listening circles, and by renewing a Fund for Suffering at the initiative of the Care and Counsel Committee. Peace and Social Concerns has continued its steadfast service to the community.

During a year in which we experienced great loss, we have come together in Spirit and in action. We enter the new year joyfully trusting the process.



Interchange - Winter 2010

The Richmond Friends Meeting community mourned the lost of two beloved members. Ruth Dahlke passed away on December 7, 2009. Ruth was a longtime member of Richmond. She moved to Friends House several years ago and was in nursing care there. Her son, Carl, has suggested a spring time memorial, as the flowers begin to bloom.

Jean Jones Andersen passed on December 14, 2009 after a courageous journey with cancer. Her memorial was held on December 21, the Winter Solstice, a most appropriate day for Jean. The family requests that gifts may be given to the African Great Lakes Initiative.

Richmond Friends Meeting’s Peace and Social Concerns Committee conducted a survey in the Fall. The survey was in response to the committee’s charge to support members and attenders in seeking a more peaceful and just world. Let Your Light Shine, as the survey is named, offered general statements about ways in which the Richmond community tries to create a better world; ways that many people try to incorporate social justice into their professions; and as a reference, a comprehensive listing of Friends involved in local organizations and interests groups.

Emily Kimball has self-published her first book: Appalachian Trail Stories and Other Adventures: Living Your Dreams at 60 and Beyond. Emily’s book includes stories from the Appalachian Trail, her backpacking trips in the High Sierras, and her recent Elderhostel Wilderness Canoe trip on the Allagash River in northern Maine.

Richmond Friends Meeting’s committees on Care & Counsel and Peace & Social Concerns sponsored two Economic Listening Circles. The Circles provided a forum to discuss the difficult economic times in which we are living and how these challenges are affecting us. Among the concerns identified were fears of losing jobs, anxiety for children now entering the workforce, and confusion about ways in which the world economy is shifting. Among the suggestions for coping were pooling resources, simplifying living arrangements and lifestyles, and trying to “live in the present” without worrying about what comes next. As one Friend said, “If we can hang on to our capacity for generosity and love, there is hope.”

On November 7, 2009, Richmond Organization for Sexual Minority Youth (ROSMY) was honored by the Richmond Peace Education Center as the Peacemaker of the Year. Since its founding in 1991, ROSMY has served gay, lesbian, bi-sexual, transgender, and questioning youth in central Virginia and promoted tolerance and acceptance of GLBTQ youth.

Richmond Friends gathered on November 7 for a half-day Fall Retreat held at The Clearing, Richmond Friends Meeting’s meditative retreat center. Those attending enjoyed birding and Leslie Shiel led the group in active poetry listening and writing.




Interchange, Fall 2009

Our Bible Workbench series of discussions continues every First Day, providing an opportunity to explore various Christian and Hebrew scripture passages to discern where these archetypal stories may be active in our lives today.

Senior Recognition Day was held June 7, a time to show support for our five graduating high school students as they move out into the world. Various RFM committees staffed the Religious Education program over the summer, giving our regular teachers a welcomed break and providing an opportunity for many to get to know our children better.

Richmond Friends welcomed Steve Woolford and Lenore Yarger from Quaker House for a presentation in early June on the GI Rights Hotline.

Al Simmons, who served a 60-day sentence at the federal prison in Butner, NC as a prisoner of conscience for stepping over the line at Fort Benning GA while protesting the School of the Americas, presented a Friendly Forum on his experience in mid-June.

RFM is weighing its options for financing and constructing Phase 2 of the lodge at The Clearing, our retreat center in Amelia County. The original lodge built in 1990 was designed to have an addition providing a three-season meeting room, making it adequate for larger group gatherings.

We are holding in the Light our friends Betsy Brinson and Gordon Davies, who departed Richmond in mid-August for service to Ramallah Friends School in Palestine during the 2009-10 academic year.


 

Spiritual State of the Meeting Report - 2008

We felt the deep power of the silent and expectant waiting on the Spirit in our Meetings for Worship and in our other gatherings. We found this silence to be an important part of our corporate as well as individual experiences. Friends nurtured this Spirit among our young children by encouraging parents to bring them into Meeting for Worship for the first 20 minutes. We wanted children and Young Friends to know they are valued members of our community. We recognized the need for fostering intergenerational activities where Friends of all ages can get to know one another.

Our energies in 2008 were driven largely by our responses to individual losses and needs. Our community grieved the loss of three long time members, Linda Heacock, Donna Rugg and Wendell Williams, whose lives had touched our Meeting community and beyond. Our members and attenders grappled with serious illness, financial stresses, and the challenges posed for their family members. Throughout, Friends sought to tenderly support “that of God” in one another with various gifts of love. We strived to see the blessings which result from the challenges of daily living.

The Meeting focus for 2008 stood in contrast to the last several years, when we were working on the collective goal of renovating the Meetinghouse and paying the mortgage. The completion of this payment in 2008 provided a validation of a risk taken.

In 2008 our committees continued to be very busy. Issues they brought to Meeting for Worship with a Concern for Business (Business Meeting) were generally well seasoned. This year, Friends were very willing to serve on committees and to support each other. However, it is our sense that Meetings for Worship as well as Business Meetings were somewhat less well attended than in the previous few years.

Dialogues within our Meeting proved to be opportunities for growth. We were able to recognize and illuminate our differences. We embraced our community’s diversity and felt enriched by these differences.

We are addressing our relationships with the wider community through our outreach activities. We are examining how we define our beliefs to ourselves and to each other.

In these many aspects we report that our “Spiritual State” was strong yet, as ever, struggling, changing, and developing as our community attended to the Spirit and each other.


 

Interchange - Spring 2009

The query “how do the ways in which we choose to use our community’s resources reflect our most deeply held values?” is answered in part by the deep engagement of Richmond Friends Meeting in the first few months of 2009.

During the winter session of the Virginia General Assembly, the RFM community was active in sharing Friends views on legislative issues that impact poverty and social justice issues during Virginia Friends Advocacy Day.

Our mid-February Meeting for Worship with a Concern for Business was especially rich because of the presence of Young Friends attending the weekend-long BYM Youth Conference at our Meeting House.

On November 23, Al Simmons from the RFM community and five other human rights advocates engaged in a nonviolent act of civil disobedience to protest the School of the Americas (SOA)/Western Hemisphere Institute for Security Cooperation (WHINSEC), by “crossing the line” or trespassing onto the Fort Benning military base in Georgia, where the school is held. The Richmond Peace Education Center, Pax Christi, Midlothian Friends Meeting, and RFM co-sponsored a forum on March 15 to provide information and perspective about the activities at the SOA, a training facility for Latin American soldiers, many of whom have been implicated in the rapes, murders, and disappearances of their own people. RFM, in its March Meeting for Business, approved a minute to de-fund and close the SOA/WHINSEC. We continue to hold Al in the Light as he serves a 60-day federal trespassing sentence at the Butner, NC Federal Correctional Institution.

In March, RFM joined members and leaders of the Muslim, Jewish, and Christian communities in the Greater Richmond area in an Interfaith Commitment for Peace in the Middle East. The multi-faceted statement called on “all parties involved in the conflict to work sincerely and vigorously toward a just and lasting peace that addresses and promotes the national aspirations of both the Israeli and Palestinian peoples.” Separately, RFM issued a minute calling for the U.S. government to engage in robust diplomatic initiatives for a peaceful resolution to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. For complete transcripts of both statements, visit our website at www.richmondfriends.org.

For the fourth year, a Katrina relief group from Richmond Friends spent an April week on the Mississippi coast, assisting with home building and repair projects. A chili luncheon fundraiser in early March raised over $1,000 from our community for travel expenses.

In early April, RFM hosted a forum with Beth Panilaitis, the new executive director of Virginians Against the Death Penalty. Beth discussed the National Coalition to End the Death Penalty and other ways to advance changes in laws concerning the death penalty.

The RFM community gathered on April 24th for the dedication of a Virginia historic roadside marker paying tribute to the early Richmond Friends Meeting. The marker at 20th and Main Street is near the site of the original meetinghouse. Guest speakers were Jay Worrall, author of The Friendly Virginians: America’s First Quakers, and Arnold Ricks, Bennington College history faculty member whose family has longtime roots in the Richmond Meeting.

Getry Agizah, a young Quaker woman from Kenya associated with the Africa Great Lakes Initiative, spoke at RFM on April 26 on grassroots peacemaking in Kenya after the post-election violence in 2008. Getry is responsible for organizing and coordinating the Alternatives to Violence Project and Healing and Rebuilding our Communities workshops at the Friends Peace Centre in Lubao near Kakamega, Kenya.

 


Interchange - Fall 2008

As usual, it’s a challenge to condense all the activity of our Meeting into a few paragraphs, so the following are special highlights. In late spring, it was announced that the Meeting had paid in full through gifts and bequests the $660,000 mortgage that was negotiated in 2005 for renovation of the Religious Education building. In May, a group of 11 RFM volunteers spent six days in Waveland, Mississippi doing Katrina-related relief work. With over $1000 raised by Young Friends, they were able to assist several families and worked on four homes, as part of Camp Gulfside, a United Methodist relief mission. Also in May, we held our spring retreat at the Clearing and in early June, celebrated several of our graduating Young Friends.

Over the past several months, we’ve been crafting language for an historical marker that will be placed near the location of our Meeting’s original structure, built in 1797. Ours was the second faith group to establish a home in Richmond, after St. John’s Episcopal Church.

We continue to follow closely the humanitarian work of Friends Church Peace Team in Kenya and in July hosted a presentation by David Zarembka and others about peacemaking efforts in central African countries.

We marked the International Day of Peace September 21 with a period of silence at noon during our Meeting for Business, participation in the Family Peace Festival hosted by local faith communities, and a family vigil and silent walk that evening at our Meeting House.

Many in our Meeting are looking forward to the November 8 event that will raise funds for the Richmond Peace Education Center. RPEC has selected RFM member Betsy Brinson as Peacemaker of the Year, an honor that recognizes Richmond or Virginia residents who have contributed significantly to the struggle for peace and justice.


 

Spiritual State of the Meeting Report - 2007

In preparing this report, we first asked: “What does ‘spiritual state of the meeting’ mean, and by what measures can we assess it?” In worship sharing and subsequent discussion on this question, a theme emerged that our “spiritual state” is embodied in our sense of community.

Many participate in Richmond Monthly Meeting because we find here a place where people sincerely try to listen and reach out to each other in ways we rarely find elsewhere. In our tradition, this sense can be characterized as recognizing “that of God” in each of us and attending to that Spirit, and hence to each other.

This attention to Spirit is nurtured in Meeting for Worship and reflected in our interactions, in the sense of a gathered meeting, in the feeling of love in our worship and community. It’s also part of Quaker process in our committees and in Meeting for Business.

Looking back over recent years, we are becoming progressively trustful of the process, encouraging people to engage and working toward productive outcomes.

Our committees are accomplishing many things while operating in the spirit of the sense of the meeting, and the issues they bring to monthly business meeting are well seasoned, which helps business meetings be more Spirit-centered.

Still, we see that building community is sometimes confusing, messy, and difficult, and we appreciate the patience and energy that all contribute, often over long periods of time. Yet by applying hard work and close attention to process, we have been better able to solve problems, resolve or transcend differences, season issues in committees, and find unity with the Spirit.

While many participate, we wonder if we might better engage more people, while recognizing that many participate at a pace that fits their lives and spiritual seeking. We would also like to have more dialogue about how our range of beliefs play out in the life of our community. As individuals, we may be Christ-centered, Bible-based, Universalist, nontheist, or hold other beliefs. Some people self-censor lest they somehow offend others, so we still seek a shared “Language of the Spirit.” We find guidance in BYM Faith and Practice’s suggestion that “We have a profound, often tested, durable respect for individuals … and each Monthly Meeting must, as always, fit its practice to its own situation and the needs of its members.” This is our continuing challenge.

In these many aspects we report that our “spiritual state” is strong yet, as ever, struggling … changing and developing as our community attends to the Spirit and each other.

 


Interchange - Spring 2008

With one year ending and another beginning, it is hard not to acknowledge some nitty gritty accomplishments: adoption of another carefully considered budget, a roster of full committees and service opportunities, and new clerks learning the worshipful ways of Quaker business. We marked the end of 2007 with a minute supporting full Congressional approval of HR1294, the Thomasina E. Jordan Indian Tribes of Virginia Recognition Act of 2007, giving federal recognition to Virginia native tribes as sovereign peoples, to enable eligibility for federal funds through the Bureau of Indian Affairs.

In the midst of all our usual endeavors, the Ministry and Worship Committee is leading a careful process for community discernment on concerns about BYM’s continuing membership in Friends United Meeting. Meanwhile, families are encouraged to consider sending children to BYM camps (with financial assistance available from our Meeting), and a work group will again travel to Mississippi in early May to continue Hurricane Katrina relief activities.


Peace Call - 2007

The peacemaking activities of the Peace and Social Concerns Committee of Richmond Friends Meeting bear witness to a range of local, regional, and national concerns. On the second Saturday of every month, we lead a silent “Take a Second for Peace” vigil and walk along our busy city Boulevard. The committee purchased “War is Not the Answer” yard signs and distributes them at no charge to Friends.

Members of the Committee have been an “informed presence” at several high schools career fairs with brochures and guidance about alternatives to military recruitment. With the Richmond Peace Education Center, we have improved the visibility and accessibility of the Opt Out form in the Richmond Public Schools information packets for parents and students, so that they can elect not to be contacted by military recruiters. Members of our Meeting have provided financial and volunteer leadership support for Quaker House in Fayetteville, NC.

Richmond Friends, along with the Peace Center and Midlothian Friends Meeting, provides ongoing oversight of Virginia’s “Eyes Wide Open” display, coordinating storage, maintenance and updating of the boots and signs for Virginia venues.

Our Meeting agreed on a minute opposing military action in Iran, and notified elected officials and the media of our position. The Committee organized two FCNL-related letter writing campaigns. Annually, our Meeting sponsors of the ecumenical and inter-religious International Day of Peace Vigil on September 21, with a silent vigil and candlelight walk that draws participants from area churches, synagogues, mosques, and temples. And finally, last summer we hosted a forum for the Christian Peacemakers Team (Maurice Trimmer, Maury River Friends) and Alternatives to Violence coordinator, Hezron Masitsa from Kenya.


 

Interchange - Fall 2007

The International Day of Peace on September 21 launched a weekend full of Richmond Friends’ activities. In addition to hosting a public candlelight vigil, our Meeting, the Richmond Peace Education Center and Midlothian Friends Meeting sponsored a workshop led by Chuck Fager of Quaker House on “Strategies for Long-Term Peace Work: What Peace Activists Can Learn from the Military.” Our Outreach committee organized our presence at the 4th annual community-wide Family Peace Festival.

Highlights from this summer included an evening meal hosted by RFM for Cindy Sheehan and her colleagues during their march to Washington, and a forum on Kenya and the Alternatives to Violence Project with Hezron Masitsa, from the Friends International Center in Nairobi and the lead facilitator for the AVP. We took time this fall to celebrate the expanding peacework of Quakers in Kenya through the Friends Peace Teams’ African Great Lakes Initiative, especially Linda Heacock’s continuing embraced ministry as an AVP trainer, and Barbara Myers’ workcamp experience at the Laboa AVP Peace Center.

Closer to home, the Katrina Relief group is planning its third trip to assist with Gulf Coast rebuilding, another session of Quakerism 101 gets underway this fall, and our religious education classrooms are full of children. Expanded community use of our renovated and enlarged facilities has required a closer look at and refinement of building use practices and processes.


 

Spiritual State of the Meeting Report - 2006

Richmond Friends Meeting (RFM) began the new year firmly resettled in our renovated home, our first full year here. For a number of years, many of us had devoted our energies and enthusiasms toward the real-world decisions and concerns (fund-raising, mortgage rates, construction delays and the like) that undertaking and executing such a large renovation project entailed.

We are gratified at the success of our efforts, which has led to increased use and enjoyment of our renovated building in the larger Richmond community. We also are proud of the fact that, at the end of 2006, we had nearly completed paying for the renovation.

Those are "real-world" accomplishments, to be sure, but we also are gratified at the "renovation of our hearts" that occurred during the long process. From the very beginning, we focused on bringing our members and friends into the effort, holding threshing sessions, small-group “listening circles” and a multitude of fun(d)-raisers that built community as we worked toward building the structure. Through the various get-togethers, focused on a large and important goal, new friendships were made and existing ones strengthened. We emerged not only with a new home but with a more close-knit and spiritually alive Meeting.

In 2006 as is usual with our Meeting, we directed our energies into a wide variety of projects, and sometimes we wondered about being spread too thin. We know that some of us are more interested in an inwardly directed spiritual journey, while others gravitate toward a more outward-focused journey.

We continued to realize the positive impact of moving Meeting for Worship with a concern for Business (MWB) to a regular 11 a.m. worship time. More families have gotten involved, and the various projects and work of committees are more integrated into the Meeting as a whole. Having our MWB on Sunday has helped to keep us together.

We would like to define “the spiritual state of the Meeting” in terms of how RFM nurtured the spiritual development of individuals and our community as a whole. In 2006 most of us were engaged in some of the following activities, which nurtured our spiritual growth:

  • embracing fellow Friends who hold a wide variety of beliefs about God and Quakerism
  • striving to listen closely to each other with open hearts
  • allowing people to decide their own level and type of participation in the work of Meeting
  • being responsive to individual personal needs and caring for one another
  • helping our community grow through scholarships and educational activities
  • planning and teaching our 55 children and teens with creativity and enthusiasm
  • attending a weekly Bible Workbench
  • participating in the midweek worship group
  • joining in fellowship through groups like Friendly 8’s
  • enjoying the Young Friends’ Coffee House and
  • singing together once a month.

Most important, since we have no pastor or hierarchy, each of us was also individually responsible for upholding Quaker ideals and adding our truth (silent or vocal) to weekly worship.

RFM additionally nurtured spiritual growth through activities that involved people beyond the RFM community in the following ways:

In 2006 we expressed a desire for more visibility. We already have an RFM website, and we decided to further expand our visibility efforts by creating a new Outreach committee.

We participated in the greater Quaker community through organizing the BYM women’s retreat, supporting BYM camping, hearing directly from leaders at FCNL and learning Godly Play from an FGC coordinator. Two of our Young Friends travelled and worked in Ramallah Palestine with a group of BYM Young Friends. We also continued our dialogue with FUM about our different beliefs related to homosexuality, and we encouraged understanding between us by beginning our dialogue with a discussion of our shared goals.

We involved ourselves in greater Richmond by working with the Richmond Peace Education Center and a homeless shelter in the inner city, organizing counter-military recruitment efforts, sponsoring the Journey of Hope exhibit about the death penalty, inviting the wider community to recognize the UN's International Day of Peace (planned with our RFM children and Young Friends), working with a refugee family from Afghanistan and another from Somalia, and sponsoring regular "work camps" in a Richmond neighborhood.

We were also led to participate in activism against Virginia’s proposed “marriage amendment” and in certain other state and federal legislative concerns. An RFM group traveled to Biloxi, Miss., to provide relief for a community recovering from Katrina. In addition, one of our members continued with an embraced ministry with theAlternatives to Violence Project of the African Great Lakes Initiative of Friends Peace Teams. She brought back ideas and also invited a Quaker pastor from Burundi to enrich our Meeting. Four of us participated in the annual protest against the School of the Americas in Georgia.

We also acknowledge areas where we could better nurture our spiritual development:

  • being more mindful of and helpful to committees under stress
  • welcoming new attendees and helping them figure out who we are and how they might further participate in Meeting
  • recruiting more adults (especially men) to help in children’s RE
  • processing differences in more constructive and loving ways
  • improving communication between committees and MWB, especially in processing agenda items and
  • helping people realize that being on a committee isn’t just work, that it’s fun and an important way to get into the life of the Meeting.

Of course, this list isn’t exhaustive, and next year we’ll look at the progress we made in those areas.

In a wide variety of ways, RFM worked hard in 2006 to encourage the spiritual development of individuals and the Meeting as a whole. Ideally, our myriad activities are an expression of our spirituality. The members of the committee of Ministry and Worship (who prepared this report) are deeply thankful to everyone at RFM who labored to bring the Spirit into our lives.


 

Interchange - Spring 2007

Richmond Friends Meeting has joined a coalition of counter-recruitment organizations to stage a segment of the AFSC Eyes Wide Open exhibit March 20-21, tentatively at the Student Commons plaza at Virginia Commonwealth University. The exhibit belongs to the Charlottesville Friends Meeting and includes boots for Virginia military casualties as well as shoes for Iraqi civilians who have lost their lives in the war. The counterrecruitment coalition includes the Richmond Peace Education Center, the Richmond Mennonite Fellowship, Midlothian Friends Meeting, the Virginia Anti-War Network, the VCU Campus Anti-War network, two Episcopal churches and other interested Quakers.

This endeavor is just one of so many examples of a community committed to letting its individual and collective lives speak. Several Richmond Friends traveled to the January 27 march on the National Mall, participated in the Virginia Friends Advocacy Day at the Virginia General Assembly on February 5, and rallied food contributions for the monthly meal we serve at the Hull Street shelter. We hosted a visit from Guilford College friends at the end of January to learn more about the college and the Quaker Leadership program, and are busy nurturing families with children who hope to attend BYM summer camping programs. On March 10 we’ll host a workshop with Margery Mears Larrabee on the Quaker tradition of eldering, and are distilling our reflections about the past year into our annual Spiritual State of the Meeting report. This opportunity to examine more deeply the past year’s highlights and themes, and ways of improving our spiritual “home” is a communal process always more fulfilling than the tangible report itself.


 

Interchange - Fall 2006

Richmond Friends Meeting passed a minute this summer declaring our Meeting’s opposition to the proposed Marshall/Newman “marriage amendment” to Article I of the Virginia constitution. In keeping with the traditions of our Meeting, we historically have embraced all loving and committed relationships and believe this is the best way to strengthen marriage. Friends have been urged to take action, as they are led, to oppose this amendment.

RFM’s outreach to our local and global community continues to widen and deepen. We have established an ad hoc “visibility” committee to foster public awareness of our Meeting’s existence and basic Quaker values, and to seek more meaningful participation in the larger Richmond community. We are participating in the Richmond Peace Education Center’s Family Peace Festival in mid-September, followed by a candlelight vigil on September 21 at the Meeting marking the International Day of Peace. A volunteer work team is forming to make a second visit to the Gulf Coast region in December to provide disaster relief and clean-up assistance. We continue to support Linda Heacock’s embraced ministry as a facilitator with the Alternatives to Violence program through the Friends Peace Teams’ African Great Lakes Initiative; Linda has made a second trip to Kenya this fall, including a trip to South Africa for the AVP International Conference.

Another way we nurture the broader community is by sharing information about ways other organizations may use The Clearing, our lovely meditative retreat center in rural Amelia County. For more information about The Clearing, its facilities, and potential usage, go to www.theclearing.net.


 

Spiritual State of the Meeting Report - 2005

Friends gathered on Saturday morning, March 4th, 2006 to consider the spiritual state of our meeting. Two strong themes of gratitude and holistic community emerged from our sharing; additionally, the desire was expressed that we be mindful of all that remains to be done. The dynamic tension between our gratitude and our concern for our spiritual growth and its expression in social action was acknowledged and appreciated.

We expressed deep gratitude for individuals, committees and for Meeting as a whole. The strength and energy of our community has grown in 2005. One way we saw this was our caring for one another in times of need. We came together as a community when the renovation of our religious education building necessitated a move on January 1st to a nearby church, supporting each other through a variety of stresses involved in this sojourn. In May, we joyously celebrated the return to our meeting house. Most especially we witnessed the enthusiastic channeling of our growing strength and vitality into increased community involvement – both in sharing among ourselves and in outreach to the wider community.

Conducting Meeting for Worship with a concern for Business (MWB) during the regular 11:00 hour on third First Days continues to be crucial to the increased sense of involvement, commitment and strength of Meeting. The effect of greater attendance at MWB is a stronger community that has been able to reach unity in taking on greater challenges. We have learned that we can handle projects and obstacles, and we feel confident that we will be able to do so in the future. We have provided well for our youth and First Day School teachers in the renovated religious education building and, more importantly, in the example of how central Quaker process has been to our successes.

Similarly, the clerks’ gathering on the Wednesday prior to MWB remains productive both in a practical sense and in providing opportunities for spiritual growth and deeper appreciation of Quaker and RFM traditions. By discussing the concerns of the various committees, participants help determine what business items are properly seasoned for presentation at MWB. The gathering is also an opportunity to nurture clerks, and has helped to foster communication and interaction between committees.

The holistic concept of mind/body/spirit of individuals was extended to the corporate as the effects of our new, “healthy” building were explored. Our use of Quaker process, in deciding to go forward with the construction project, in fundraising, and throughout the construction as issues arose, has reaped many benefits in other areas. We have been energized by our emphasis on building community rather than on simply renovating a building. Though our focus throughout the building process was more inward than usual, the growth and nourishment of our community is a long term investment that will continue to yield positive returns in numerous areas for many years to come.

We have been able to increase our outreach to our members as well as the greater community because of our revitalized energy and because of the pleasant atmosphere and accessibility of our facility. We have presented and hosted many more programs than in previous years. We deeply appreciate the many efforts, activities and achievements of all our committees, which are truly too many to enumerate. More often than not there is more than one group using the building on any given evening. Scheduling can be more difficult, but the increased use of the building makes it worthwhile.

In a world in conflict we have also continued to focus on the traditional Quaker peace testimony and on social justice, foreign and domestic. We desire to continue growing individually and corporately in our witness to Quaker values as we continue our corporate self examination. We desire to be increasingly Spirit-led as we seek more meaningful participation in the larger Richmond community, an arena which presents many challenging opportunities. We are enthusiastic about our future endeavors. We welcome the energy, spirit and questioning in our members and many new attenders as we try to provide support and nourishment for all of them, especially those who ask us to embrace their ministries.


 

Interchange, Fall 2005

On May 22, Richmond Friends Meeting celebrated a “homecoming,” marking the completion of a $600,000+ renovation and expansion of its Education building. The facility now is fully accessible on all levels, provides expanded multi-purpose space for meetings, monthly potlucks, and use by outside groups, renovated kitchens and restrooms, and two new classrooms as well as refurbished spaces for religious education and our library. There now is a bright, expanded foyer connecting the Meetinghouse to the Education building, and a lovely outdoor meditation garden. The project has been funded almost entirely through family and individual contributions, pledged over a three-to five-year period. Friends from far and wide attended the homecoming. Several weeks later, we were able to share our new facilities with those attending the BYM interim meeting.

The Meeting has embraced Linda Heacock’s ministry to Kenya this fall, where she will facilitate the Alternatives to Violence Project with Friends Peace Teams at work in the African Great Lakes Initiative.

After months of consideration and arranging many opportunities to provide individual perspective, an ad hoc Bequest Committee reached clarity of direction on the use of a bequest left to Richmond Friends Meeting by Alan McCullough, Jr. in honor of Arnold Ricks. After weighing the many views expressed and seeking a Spirit-led path to unity, the committee recommended that 90 percent of the bequest be applied to our building fund, and, in gratitude for this blessing, that 10 percent be given to charitable organizations, including American Friends Service Committee, the Baltimore Yearly Meeting camping program, and CHIP (Children’s Health Involving Parents) of Greater Richmond.

Our community-building and Spirit nurturing activities continue at good pace: Bible Workbench weekly discussions, Quakerism 101, monthly meals for a local homeless shelter, Friendly Eights, our occasional journal What Canst Thou Say, inner city work camps, vigils for peace and in opposition to the death penalty, and our religious education program for over 50 young people, infants through high-schoolers.


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